Red Letter Events was assigned the theme “Winter Desert” for the inaugural show in Tacoma. It was our challenge to create a vignette that incorporated these two opposing themes. To do this, we used rustic and organic elements like burlap, twine, wood, sand, moss and succulent plants. We also used snow and cool blue lighting, as well as blue napkins and ribbon, and brown and blue fonts in the paperie.

We want to give a big ‘thank you’ to our vignette partners, Trendy Event Rentals, Burning Cupcakes, Valerie’s Invites, AA Party Rentals and Mercer Island Florist for all of the time and materials you put into this event.

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This year, 100% of our clients through out the receiving line, and we couldn’t have been happier about it. For the sake of soon-to-be wed couples that are trying to figure out what to do to acknowledge their guests, but really aren’t excited about the thought of a receiving line, I thought I’d offer some alternatives to consider.

• Mingling during the cocktail hour – Instead of planning a grand entrance to your reception with your new spouse, you could enjoy a more casual entrance to your party and mingle with your guests during the cocktail hour. You probably won’t have to go far though, because what you might find is that an informal line will start to form, and the guests that really want to greet you will come to you.
• Releasing tables to the buffet – Of course this only works if you’re planning dinner buffet-style, and not plated. The idea is that you and your new spouse visit each table, receive your congratulations, thank your guests, and excuse them to the buffet before moving on to the next table. This keeps the buffet line short and managed, and gives you and your guests a moment together. Don’t forget about you, though. To pull this off, I recommend having your wedding coordinator prepare a plate of food for the both of you, and eat a bit before you make your entrance into your reception. Depending on the size of your guest list, releasing tables could take a while, and if you don’t eat before, you’ll be starving by the time you’re done. That, and there won’t be much time before toasts, cake cutting, and the many other reception events replace your time to eat.
• Mingling at guest tables – This works for buffet or plated dinners. You and your wedding party lead the way to the buffet, or receive your plated dinner first. Because you’re first to eat, you’ll likely be first to be done. When you’re done eating, you and your new spouse can spend a few minutes at each guest table. This is less rushed than releasing tables to the buffet, but you still need your wedding coordinator to manage your time, otherwise, you may not make it to every table before reception events begin, and you lose your opportunity.

While we don’t wish ill will on the poor Receiving Line, or any clients that are planning on “the long walk”, we are glad to see this tradition fading into the past. Always have fun planning your wedding, and don’t be afraid to make some new traditions.

Come join us at the Tacoma Art Museum on April 8th for and evening of delicious appetizers and beverages, provided by Jonz Catering.

You’ll get to meet an array of wedding vendors in an intimate setting, pick up some beautiful decorating ideas, and see the museum as you’ve never seen it before.

This free event is by invitation only. Please RSVP with us by email or by phone.

Come join us at the Tacoma Dome Exhibition Hall on March 27th & 28th for the Tacoma Spring Wedding Expo. We’re going to be there with some great partners and an amazing 20′x20′ booth, showcasing our collective talents and services.

We’ve also put together a great package just for Expo brides – wedding-day coordination, photography, videography and a DJ, all for under $5,000. You’ll save over $1,500, just by attending the show. You won’t find a better deal at the Expo than this.

On site will be Kim with Vivid Images Photography, Adam with Adam’s DJ Service and Anthony with Motion of Life Video Productions. And of course, we’ll be there too. Be sure to ask us about our Expo pricing, as well as our group package with Kim, Adam and Anthony.

Tickets are $15. Sign up now and get 2 tickets for the price of one. Limited time offer.

One fun idea is to create program pockets for your ceremony programs. They are very simple to make. I would recommend finding a fun double-sided paper that coordinates with your wedding theme and colors, in the scrapbooking paper section of your local craft store such as JoAnn Fabrics & Crafts and Michaels. Create a master pattern for the pocket, making the pocket just slightly larger than your program so that it slips in and out somewhat easily. As in the photo, you can hang them from the chair with ribbon, by punching a hole at the top and securing the hole with a grommet. Another idea would be to display the program on each seat, or have your ushers distribute them at the door. You can also use this pocket idea to display menus at the reception.

Monogram letters of your initials is a personal way to decorate the entrance to your ceremony, and is rather inexpensive to include in your design plans. Many craft stores have a section with unfinished wood items – including letters and numbers. I would recommend using 1 to 1-1/2 inch satin ribbon to hang the letters, without wire in it. Satin ribbon is smooth, and easy to manipulate and tie a simple bow.

Entirely covering your center aisle with rose petals is a beautiful, romantic and whimsical visual effect. I especially love the large clear hurricane vases filled with water and rose petals, with lit floating candles. This would especially be wonderful for an outdoor garden wedding. The vases could be re-used later as decorations on your reception tables, lining the edge of an outdoor patio, or on your buffet and guest book tables. If you transfer the vases with candles, make sure to have an extra set of candles available for each vase, as floating candles will not re-light once they have water mixed in with the wax.

Red Letter Events recommends renting a large quantity of vases instead of purchasing, unless you plan to re-sell them to another bride at A Grand Wedding. We support brides who would like to ‘Go Green’ with their wedding, and we are glad to re-use some of the decorations from your Ceremony at the Reception.

More and more brides and grooms are asking us how to fit all their dreams and desires into their wedding day on a budget that isn’t as big as it once was. Here’s the good news – it’s totally possible to have the wedding of your dreams on a limited budget – you just need to think outside the box to get there. Sounds like a good time for a quick tip series. This will be Part 1 in a 3 part series – because trilogies are cool and too many tips at once can make you sick, like too much wedding cake in an hour. So here we go:

Ceremony Venue: Set up your ceremony in a large back yard of a friend or family member, or have it at a local park ($50-150). Rent chairs from a party store such as AA Party Rental or Alexander Party Rentals for approx $300 including delivery/pick-up for 150 chairs. Metro Parks Tacoma offers the Rose Garden at Point Defiance during the summer for $400 for 2 hours (chairs included).

Bouquets, Boutonnieres & Floral Arrangements: Local farmer’s markets are a great place to meet growers and florists, and are a wonderful place to find flowers in the summer-time, as long as you aren’t particular about the colors. You might contact a local grower early in the year before they plant their seeds and see if they will grow specific flowers or colors for your wedding. Buying in bulk from a grower will save you big money too. You and your friends could make the flower table arrangements and bouquets during the last couple of days prior to the wedding. You can also find affordable vases at your local dollar store. Talking to a florist early about flowers that are in season during your wedding will help make better decisions and save you money.

Officiant: The cost for an officiant is generally around $200 – if you belong to a church or synagogue, you might ask your pastor or rabbi if they’d be willing to officiate your wedding for free as a gift.

Stationery: Buy make-it-yourself kits from Michaels craft store for around $40 for 50 invitations ($120 for 150). Generally you can find matching place cards, table numbers, thank you cards, and more in the pattern you’ve chosen. They are easy to make and print from your own computer. If you’d like to have raised lettering, you can purchase embossing powder and an embossing heat gun to create raised letters immediately after printing.

Attire: Attending a bridal dress show like the South Sound Wedding Show can net you deep discounts on designer wedding dresses. Or, choose a dress from David’s Bridal in their online outlet section.

Look for Part 2 coming soon. And if you have any tips that you’ve used or like but don’t see here, please comment and share.